Saturday, August 25, 2012

Party Party Party!!

A wedding is really just a great excuse to visit and party with all the people you love. There is not just the wedding but the engagement party, bridal showers, and bachelor/bachelorette parties. All of which are great reasons to gather everyone you love and have some booze and fun! So with only a week left before our big day I wanted to recap on all the fun with friends and family we have had along the way...

Back in June I was the luckiest bride to have the most beautiful bridal shower ever! Ryan's step-aunt Linda was kind enough to host it at her gorgeous house. What a nice treat it was for everyone to see the famous "log cabin house" of Northville. I owe such a BIG thanks to Linda, Lauren, Aunt Sue and my mom Joyce for planning my fabulous shower!! The food was amazing, the drinks were delicious but the company was the best part. There is nothing like seeing all your favorite ladies in one room.

 
The BEAUTIFUL tablescape!!
 
Page cousins!! Katie (my bridesmaid) and Kristen (who is taller then me!!)
 
The Schlaff ladies : )
 
My Other Moms! Big BIG thanks to Karen for taking all
these great photos!!

Jessica (my maid of honor) and Linda

The Page ladies!
 
The woman of the day Miss Cassidy and her Mom, my amazing cousin Carrie.
That morning Cassidy asked her mom if she needs to bring soap to the shower!!
Gotta love it....
 
MOB and MOG
Lauren and Trisha, yay I have a sister in law!

Aunt Anita and Linda!

 
The best surprise was Adrienne showing up!! She came in
from New York. Love love love having her home!
 
My bridesmaids!! All so tall...
 
I had a little surprise up my sleeve too. I had a gift for my maid of honor Jessica and really wanted to give it to her in person. What a perfect time. I had a friend draw a rendering of her wedding dress so that she can always look at it. A girl's wedding dress is so special, why not look at it all the time!
 
Needless to say, she LOVED it!


And she deserved it too!
 
Best friends since 3 years old...
 


And now for the gifts!! Please do not get me wrong when I say this, but opening up a ton of gifts while everyone stares at you is very very awkward...even when it's all people you love and adore looking at you. But it was fun all the same! I had the best little helper passing me gifts. And I got so many wonderful gifts too. Thank you everyone for all your gave and for spending your Saturday afternoon with me!
The BEST gift helper there is!! Thanks Cass!!


Steal the show baby girl : )

One of my favorite and most sentimental gifts was the
cookie jar my Mom gave me. It's the same one she had
growing up. My Aunt gave her one this year and now I
have one too. The thought of my kids growing up with
the same cookie jar my Mom did makes my heart melt!




Another favorite gift is the recipe book from my Mom and
Lauren. Now I can make all our favorite foods!!!

Game time!!

So apparently I am the only bride who doesn't know the
bow game. Something about having a kid for every bow
you break. I will not share how many I broke but I will say
I did NOT like the outcome of this game : )

Look who showed up!!

The Fam...love! I also love how the bear head on the wall makes my brother
look like he has devil ears...
 
Again, thank you so much everyone for the greatest bridal shower I will ever have!! Everyone who knows me knows that I am a sentimental person. These are not just bridal gifts to me. I think about all the cookies I will make for my family with my new mixer, all the memories (or lack there of) I will have while using my wine glass, and so much more. It really does mean a lot to me. I've always made fun of my Mom for having items still from her bridal shower. But now having gone through it, I hope I do too in 30 plus years.
 
 
 
 
More recently I enjoyed an entirely different kind of party....it was time for a bachelorette weekend!! Jessica and all the girls planned the absolute BEST day!! My bridesmaid Amanda came in earlier that week and stayed at my place. Then on Friday my cousin/bridesmaid Katie and her friend came in town too.
 
Amanda and I working hard from home together : )

 
We started Saturday with brunch at one of my favorite places, Nookies followed by an afternoon at North Avenue beach. The water was perfect, it was so fun and relaxing! Nothing is better then just chilling out with the girls. But the weather decided to change and we had to leave the beach a little early. We headed back to Darcy's (bridesmaid) condo to relax some more and get ready for the evening festivities.

Brunch with all the ladies!
 
At the beach
 






The rest of the girls came over for dinner, another favorite of mine Pequods Pizza. And then it was time for games and gifts. Apparently I have a hidden talent I didn't know about. I was really good at guessing the pair of underwear each person got for me. Not sure that skill will come in handy after that weekend. Anyway I got some really cute things and some, well let's just say cute isn't the right word things. Another game we played was asking me questions Ryan had already answered. I had to guess what his answer would be. For the most part we rocked it. We know each other pretty darn well that Bennett guy and I  : )
 
Darcy's door- oh boy here we go!
 
 
Jealous Ryan???
 
 
Kudos to Todd for helping set everything up and sticking
around longer then anticipated. Had to get a pic in with him.
 
Opening gifts...notice the blushing...and drinking....
 
Drinking with my cousin Katie for the first time! Woo!
 
Next it was off to the bars!! We had an awesome party bus take us around the city. The first stop before the bar was an amazing spot by the museum campus. It has an incredible view of the city and was perfect for taking a picture with all the girls. Thanks to Lisa Meyer for the idea to go! Afterwards we went to a karaoke bar for some shots and sing alongs. We sang one of my favs "Sitting on the Dock of the Bay". But the highlight was definitely our rendition of "I've Blessed the Rains Down in Africa". It was super random but super amazing. After that we headed to....well I don't quite remember! All I know is I had so much fun!! Nothing compares to a day with all your best girlfriends. Thank you to my friends for the best day. Thank you to Jessica and all the bridesmaids for planning the best day. It was exactly what I needed...


Cheers!


Love this girl! Thanks for everything Jecca!!

Terrible picture but amazing friends

Erin and Kristy should really get their own sitcom. The way they play off
each other is hilarious. Anyone who meets them instantly loves them,
especially me : )

On the bus with Darcy, Kristy, Sarah and Jenny!

Singing "I blessed the rains down in africa" and doing a damn fine job at that!

 
I must be saying something REALLY interesting...or complete non-sense

Oh my gosh...love these girls!!!

Singing "Sitting on the Dock of the Bay"

no words....although this is pretty normal for us when we are together. 
 
 


Forgive me for not having more pictures. But what happens in Chicago stays in Chicago...
 
Like I said, weddings are a great excuse to get together with wonderful people and celebrate. In my honest opinion we need to do this more often. Not the gift part and all the planning but just find more excused to hang out and have fun. This my friends is what life is all about...next time though, I hope I remember more.... 
 
 
 


Monday, August 13, 2012

The Busy Life of a Bride

With 19 days to go we are really upon the final count down! My do to list is FINALLY getting shorter and all the details are coming together. I am certainly ready to be in Petoskey, relaxing and enjoying our wedding weekend. But until then let's catch up on all the fun projects I've been working on over that last 17 months.
Back in April I posted a list of all the projects I set out to do. Here is how I stand today:

-Save the Date
-Large letter "B" in moss
-Bridesmaid's gift (3 parts)
-Mailbox (half way complete)
-Table Runners
-Table Center Napkin
-Small letters "B" and "G" in moss
-Papery (invitations, programs, table #, placecard, etc)
-Wedding Story Card- Removed from list
-Centerpieces
-Memorial Candles
-Flower Girl gift (half complete)
-Groomsmen gift
-Aisle marker- Removed from list
-Placecard decor
-Favors- done by Lauren
-Welcome Bags
-Lighting Globe (my favorite project so far!)
-Parent/Grandparent wedding pictures- Done by Joyce
-Bar candles? Removed from list
-Head table front runner- added to list, almost done
-Cake topper- added to list

Not bad, huh?! Now for the details...

Moss Letters:
Over the course of our engagement I have had many obsessions when it comes to wedding projects. The first was moss. I love its texture and color. It's rustic but natural and very easy to work with. One of the very first projects I did was making moss letters. Using large cardboard letters from the craft store I cut out and hot glued strips of moss from a moss roll. The first one I did was a large "B" for our placecard table, followed by a smaller "B" and "G" for the backs of our chairs at the head table. Moss can be a little messy so I suggest using craft paper to help with clean up. I learned that one the hard way.


The Big "B"


Mailbox

As you know I am a lover of all things SIMPLE. I am not attracted to ornate and intricate details, at least when it comes to wedding (and home) decor. So when it came down to finding something to put our cards in I felt stuck with the traditional options. I simply am not a traditional girl. I'm not a fan the the birdcages and other metal wire holders. I especially am not a fan that they cost over $100 to rent! So why not create something by hand that I can keep forever for less then half of renting??

The key to this project (and several others) is having an awesome Dad. During one weekend home in February my Dad and I took a regular trip to Home Depot. That's where I spoted the mailbox section and a light bulb clicked! For less then $20 I found a classic white mailbox, a perfect blank canvas for my card holder.


 
For security we screwed the door shut so no uninvited guest can take anything out. Using boards as guides to find the center we marked and cut out a slot with a die grinder. Safety glasses required!

Security
Super Dad!


  
Setting guides for the center


Grind baby grind!
Nothing is better then father daughter DIY
project time!


Once all the cutting and sanding of the opening was done the outside was a bit scratched up. My simple solution was to wrap it in white contact paper for a fresh cover. It also helped to smooth the edge of the card slot. To personalize it I ordered custom lettering from ilikevinyl.com. I think in total I spent $30 on this project plus some fun effort and now we have a one of a kind keepsake.

 

Insert money here...please and thank you! Just kidding!
Burlap Table Runners

For several weeks during the winter I looked for table runners online. I order quite a few as options but never liked what I saw. Most looked very cheap even though they cost upwards of $10 each. I did a little more research in to table decor ideas and that's where I discovered my second obsession, burlap! 

I love how it contrasts with the white linens but does not pop out at you like some of the other shiny cheap runners. It's a subtle and nice texture on the tables. Once I made my decision to go with the burlap runners I struggled to find ones online. So true to form I said "I can make these!" I ordered a 60" wide 50 yard bolt of fabric from burlapfabric.com for like $100. I will never forget the day my glorious burlap showed up at my door, it was taller then me!

My new BFF- Burlap Fabric Forever!
I cut down the middle to create 30" wide runners for a total of 26 tables. It literally took over my whole living room. There was fiber everywhere!


One of my favorite things about this project is that I learned how to use a sowing machiene. The cut and unfinished edges needed some a quick hem. Needless to say I am hooked. I can't wait to buy my own someday. Once I got everything set up and a couple runners down it was smooth going. I was really surprised by how fast the sowing machiene worked. Although this was a fairly quick project, it sure was a messy one. For about 4 evenings straight I sowed and ironed away in my living room. By the end there was bits and pieces of burlap and fibers everywhere! On the floor, in the couch, on the cushions, in my hair, on the ironing board. This was truely one point in wedding planning that Ryan thought I had lost my mind! I got to say, I kind of agreed with him. But I do love my burlap runners! I love their look, uniqueness and the fact that they cost about $4 each. I have a ton of burlap left over and can't wait to continue crafting with it!


All cut and ready to be hemmed!
Table Napkins

In order to add some color to the tables I decided to place a large green clothe napkin on top of the runners in the center. It will ground the centerpieces on the table. But plain napkins were not good enough, oh no. At the bridal show in Petoskey in February I saw a gorgeous table set up with patterned napkins. I inquired about how much it would cost to have them made. I had to laugh when she quoted me $40 a napkin! I KNEW I could do better. I found 6 packs of napkins for $10 at World Market. Add to that a few bucks of fabric paint and for the cost of 1 napkin I did 20. Not to shabby!


I should mention that because I had planned on two different centerpeices I only painted the pattern on half of the napkins. And thank god for that because this was a painful project. It took me basically a whole day to paint the 10 I did. All the while my back and neck grew more sore. But I still think for the cost and effort I added a unique touch.



Fabric paint, foam roller and brushes
1 complete pattern, 9 more to go!
All done! Time for a massage.

Memorial Candles

Our wedding is based around the people. All those we love most will be a part of our day. However there are several people that unfortunately will only be able to be with us in spirit. I felt it was really important to have them respresented in our own way. I really did not like the memorial candles I saw online. Most were cheesy looking and very traditional in style. I wanted something simple and clean looking.

Using vases from the craft store and candle holders from the dollar store (my new favorite place), I made expensive looking hurricane vases for very little. I had seen somewhere a printable transfer paper that can put writing or images on glass.  I printed out my design and the names of those we want to remember and transfered it on to the vases. I had to do a little trimming with my exacto knife to remove some of the excess transfer paper. To add some color and interest I copied a favorite Pinterest pin that used split peas as filler inside the vase around the candles. Super cheap but super cool.

End candles- hot glued taller candle holders to vase


Center candle- hot glued candle holder to vase


The finished product


Cake Topper


A common image that pops in my head when I think of being in up north Michigan is the classic adirondeck chair. You see them on the front porches and on the beaches everywhere. When we first saw the Perry Hotel I noticed they has some out around the veranda. From then on I considered it a perfect representation of our up north simple wedding. It too became another obsession of mine. Nothing else seemed fitting enough for our cake toppers. The image of two adirondeck chairs together reminds me of all the calm visits to northern Michigan Ryan and I will take through out our life together.

I found a website that made wooden chairs for doll houses. They thankfully had an adirondeck chair model! To make them blend more with our white frosted cake, I painted the chairs white to match. It's simply perfect...

Unpainted but you get the idea.
Papery

Of all the things I've designed and made for our wedding our papery is high on my favorite list. Through a little trial and error I think I found the perfect combination of simple and classy that really represents who we are as a couple. The initial inspiration for our invitations came from Paper Source. I made some modifications along the way. One of my favorite parts is the custom map I designed. While helping my friends Anna and Brian make their invitations, Brian told me his trick in creating the map in theirs. Google maps printed as a pdf and drawn over in photoshop....amazing! I absolutely love how it turned out. And as a little nod to my Dad, who once talked abour sailing around Michigan to get to the wedding, I added a sail boat in the bay. It's most likely where he would be the day of the wedding had he continued with that idea of transportation.

Anyway, what I also love about our invitations is that I got to have a fun weekend with my maid of honor Jessica. What a great memory to have, assembling invitations, laughing, drinking and having all kinds of fun. My friend Anna also came over to help for a while. It's just so cool that so much love went in to making them. They truely are the labor of my love. The hours spent designing, printing, stamping, gluing and assembling is insane but TOTALLY worth it. I am a regular of Paper Source now, they know me by name.

Making invitations with my MOH!
My dining room/workshop

Continuing with the invitation theme I've also made the table numbers, guest book sign, favor tags, placecards and programs. And I can now say with confidance that I NEVER want to use a stamp again.

Post stamping and embossing they are laid out to dry and cool

Another favorite detail was the personalized
ribbon around the inner envelope. It honestly
was not much work but made a huge impact.
Everything prepped and ready to assemble!
Finally ready to mail out!!

Light Globe

And finally the piece de resistance, my absolutely favorite project is the light globe (only way I can think to call it) my Dad and I made. It all started last winter when I was watching Harry Potter and the Deathly Hollows part 1 (for like the hundreth time). There is a wedding scene towards the beginning. I happen to notice this cool light fixture hanging in the reception tent. It was like rings that made a globe, wrapped in fabric. It was a fast glance but I thought that would be so cool to have in our wedding tent.

I happen to go home for a weekend shortly there after and told my Dad about the lighting idea. Of course we started brainstorming right then and there. We came up with the idea of making the rings out of copper piping for plumbing. A coil of it goes for like $30 at home depot. It's easy to bend and shape but in order to get a perfect cirle we needed a mold to wrap it around. So my Dad cut out two circles of plywood as a guide for making the rings. At first we started with 3 rings but decided it needed to be fuller so we added 2 more. Once the rings were formed we welded the ends together to complete the circle. I'm super bummed because I had some great shots of my Dad and I making the rings together but I cannot find them : (

I had gone back and forth on how I wanted to light up the rings. At first I wanted to wrap them in fabric like the one I saw in HP. Then I thought about making it in to some sort of flower netting with lights. But when in doubt go the simple route. (Hey that rhymed!) I had ordered some white christmas lights, which were surpringly hard to find even online. Apparently no one using white lights with a white string anymore. I ended finding them on a great bulk website called koyalwholesale.com. I brought them home one weekend to play around with wrapping them on the rings. To my surprise when I came downstairs that Saturday morning my Dad had already wrapped all the rings and had our globe all set up! It was like Christmas morning! It turned out just as I had imagined. I absolutely love it. What a statement it will make in our tent. I also think it could make a cool garden feature someday at our home.

After I showed it to my bridesmaid Darcy she told me there were similar ringed style lighting fixtures at Restoration Hardware for upwards of $3,000! Well they didn't use christmas lights but still it's amazing considering ours cost well under $100.

Ta Dah!!!
Each ring is crimped at opposite ends and drilled
through to connect them all with a screw
Twinkle twinkle!
We should go in to business together!
Maybe we are not professional but we have fun together!


I have several other little projects I have worked on along the way. Some I can't display because they are gifts, can't ruin the surprise. But these are really my favorites.  I have learned a lot and gained many crafting skills over the last year and a half. For anyone looking to be a DIY bride my greatest advice is that Pinterest, a hot glue gun and a handy Father of the Bride can get you far. While I wouldn't agree with those who say wedding planning is the greatest time ever, I will say that I have had so much fun personalizing our wedding with projects. I hope you all enjoy them as much as I have!


Kristen